Love of Your Life

Once upon a time there was a teacher and his student. They lay down under a big tree near a big grass field. Then suddenly, the student asked the teacher, Student: Teacher, I'm confused about how we find our soul mate. Can you please help me? Teacher stays silent for a few seconds. Teacher: Well, it's a pretty hard question. Teacher: Look on that way. There is a lot of grass there. Why don't you trying walking there. The only rule is that you can only walk straight ahead but not backwards. On your way, try to find the most beautiful grass and pick it up for me. Pick only one grass. Student: Well, ok then. Wait for me. Student walks straight ahead to the grass field. A few minutes later... Student: I'm back Teacher: Well, I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand. Student: On my journey, I found a few beautiful stalks of grass. However, I thought I would find a better one so I didn't pick any up. Before I knew it, I am at the end of the field and I hadn't picked any grass. I didn’t go back for the grasses as you told me to only walk straight ahead. Teacher: That's what happens in real life. The grass refers to the people around you while beautiful grasses are those people that you are attracted to. You were comparing between the different grasses too much to notice the most beautiful grass. Similarly, when going through the path of life, please don't always compare your partner in the hope of finding a better soul mate. By doing that, you'll waste your lifetime away. Try to always accept what he/she is as nobody is perfect.

Time and Love

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love. One day it was announced to all the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. Hence, all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help. Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?" Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere." Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please." "I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat." Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you." Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now." Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you." But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder. Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?" "It was Time", Knowledge answered. "But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked. Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

Different Ways to Say I Love You

1. Call her the next day. 2. Always laugh at her jokes. 3. Tell her (truthfully) that you can't wait to see her again. 4. Offer her a backrub, without asking for one in return. 5. Call her just to say you were thinking about her. 6. Bring her a teddy bear and chicken soup when she's sick. 7. Write her a poem. 8. Slow dance with her (not only on a dance floor). 9. Bring her flowers for no reason. 10. Send her a (handwritten) letter just to say hello. 11. Always remember your anniversaries and bring her something sweet. 12. Kiss her in the middle of a sentence. 13. Take her for a walk at sunset and stay to look up at the stars. 14. Tell her something about you that no one else knows. 15. Remind her that you still think she's beautiful. 16. Take a bubble bath together. 17. Watch a sappy movie with her. 18. Surprise her with a candlelight dinner. 19. Never stop trying to impress her. 20. Tell her you love her. 21. Never forget how much she means to you.

How Do You Know If You Are In Love

When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them. At that moment, you are in love. Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh, your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone. Then, you are in love. Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet. You are desperately waiting for the call! At that moment, you are in love. If you are much more excited for one short e-mail fromthat special someone than other many long e-mails, you are in love. When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the messages in your answering machine because of one message from that special someone, you are in love. When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of that special someone. Then, you are in love. You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend", but you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that moment, you are in love. While you are reading this page, if someone appears in your mind, then you are in love with that person.

Love Questions

There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn't know which one he loved more. Someone taught him. Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly : "When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happiness with?" The one you think of is someone you love. Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly : "When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?" The one you think of is also someone you love. If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's the most perfect. But if you don't think of the same gal, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with. In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover. If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you. But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover is too unstable, she doesn't treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with. Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in her heart. If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?